Raising The Issue And Having A Debate.

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Perhaps it's just an effect that is manifesting from a previous cause - I don't know. It is also possible that I could be emitting the thoughts and feelings, into the universe. However, within the last seventeen days, I have been experiencing some 'high class' problems with women. Heterosexual women. Three, at the last count. I really am not prepared to dissect and discuss the encounters that I have had, with each of these three women. But, I will say that what seemed initially to be innocuous matters, have escalated beyond my control, and I can no longer stick my head in the sand.

The lastest, and by far most shocking, drama took place only two hours ago. I was accused of phoning a woman's mobile, from a phone box and propositioning her in a sexually explicit manner! I'm not responsible for that phone call. It wasn't me.

This type of revelation is unprecedented. In the past I have had no difficulty expressing amorousness without vulgarity. I am honest about my feelings and I can and do accept the consequences. I didn't come 'Out' as a lesbian to hide my feelings for other women in a closet. But heterosexual women also need to realise that, I do have choices as a lesbian and I don't have to select just ANY woman!

Earlier this month in ' Stepping Outside Comfort Zone', which was posted nine days ago. I mentioned that I was unwilling and unable to conduct non- platonic relationships with other women, due to my four year adoration of one woman, in particular.

Nothing's changed.